Ask A Hot Chick: The Fake Orgasm

in Ask a Hot Chick by Jillian — November 9, 2009 |

faking an orgasm

Sometimes I can totally tell when my girl is faking it. Why does she fake it? What’s the point?
~ Anonymous

Darling, you are not alone with this. Psychologist John M. Grohol did a survey that showed that 67% of women admitted to faking an orgasm. Many women simply cannot achieve an orgasm during intercourse. Orgasms feel so good because they involve so many systems in the body; neurological, anatomical, muscular, hormonal, respiratory and the list goes on. If just one of these systems is off, well then the orgasm won’t be achieved.

Now as we all know, women can be a little crazy so more often than not it is her neurological system that is out of whack and preventing her from having an orgasm. The slightest thing could throw her off and prevent her from orgasming. Like her friend’s boyfriend bought her flowers “just because,” but she realized you’ve never given her flowers “just because,” there’s dust on the nightstand and she can’t think of anything except cleaning it off, or she has a presentation at work that she is nervous about. Your girl could be faking it to make you think she is finished in hopes that you will soon finish too. If you orgasm, then she can get on with doing whatever it is she has on her mind. The little things tend to take over a woman’s mind, things that men can tune out the moment they see a pair of boobs. Men think with their dick or their mind, women always think with their mind.

Your girl’s mind might be elsewhere or she might just not be in the mood that night, but she knows you are. She has sex with you because she loves you and she wants to make you happy… or she wants you to stop nagging her for sex. Having sex with you for a few minutes is a lot easier than dealing with your nagging.

I wouldn’t recommend talking to her about it. I’m pretty sure if you do, you will end up pissing her off. It is also very likely she won’t admit to faking it either. Some things are just better to leave as they are. Just remember, you are not alone with this and a lot of women fake it. It is very likely her decision to fake it is because something is on her mind and not that you are bad in the sack.

Also, here some of the most common reasons for faking an orgasm, taken from the ABC News 2004 “The American Sex Survey” poll.

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Author: Jillian

After working several years in not for profit as an advocate for the tatas, Jillian felt it was time to focus on the muff. Jillian is still unsure if the equator is a real line that goes around the Earth or just an imaginary one, but who the hell cares because she's got a great rack. Everything is funny as long as it is happening to someone else.