Ask A Hot Chick: Ex Sex

in Ask a Hot Chick by Jillian — November 5, 2009 |

My girlfriend and I recently broke up because of our different life goals. It was pretty much mutual. Although recently she has been coming over a couple times a week, pretty much to just have sex. In my mind, this is awesome because I get none of the nagging I used to get. How long should I keep this going?

~ Anonymous

It is never just sex with a woman, even if she tells you it is. There is always something more going on in her mind, her heart and especially her hormones. During sex, women produce a lot of a hormone called oxytocin, which is a hormone that stimulates a strong emotional connection. Guys only produce a small amount of oxytocin during sex and that is why they can have sex easier with less sense of an emotional connection. Your ex-girlfriend may want to have a relationship that is purely sexual, but no matter how hard she wants it to be just sex something more is there. This is especially true with someone who she’s had an established relationship and emotional connection with. Every time you two have sex the emotions and hormones get stirred up again.

The longer you keep this going, the harder it is going to be for her to break the sense of attachment she has with you. If you know for sure in your mind that you do not want a relationship with her anymore, then you need to end things completely. The sooner you do this the better, but I wouldn’t blame you if you wanted to get one or two more hook-ups before you end it.

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