Ask A Hot Chick: Quickie Sex

in Ask a Hot Chick by Jillian — November 23, 2009 | View Comments

How do I get my girl to want to do quickies? I’m always up for them, but every time I try she bitches how her hair might get messed up or we will be late.

~ Kent

It typically takes a woman some time to “warm up” before she can reach an orgasm. According to Dr. Cullins with Planned Parenthood, men take only two minutes after penetration to orgasm, but most women can’t even reach an orgasm through penetrated sex. Clitoral stimulation is the best way to make a woman orgasm, but because of the position of the clitoris it is often not stimulated during penetrated sex.

Elongated penetrated sex is more pleasurable for a woman because it gives her time to “warm up” and a chance to switch positions to those that stimulate her most. “Quickies” are exactly what the word implies and are fast sexual experiences. Most women partake in a quick sexual experience just to satisfy their partner. She’s not in it for her, but she’s in it to make him happy. Since a woman knows she most likely won’t have the time to reach an orgasm during a “quickie,” sometimes she would rather make up an excuse to get out of it. It probably took her an hour to make her hair look so good and she doesn’t want to risk ruining it with a three minute un-climatic “quickie.” If you can find a way to make sure your girl is also reaching an orgasm during these “quickies,” she will most likely be up for them as often as you are.

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