Ask a Hot Chick: She Can’t Get Off

in Ask a Hot Chick by Jillian — September 26, 2009 |

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I have been dating this girl for a couple months and everything is going great except she can’t cum from sex or from oral? What do I do?

~ Anonymous

Well, that really sucks. By “cum” do you mean she doesn’t get wet or do you mean she can’t reach an orgasm? If by “cum” you mean she can’t get wet, well that’s an easy fix. Vaginal dryness is actually very common, why do you think K-Y is a multi-million dollar company? There are several reasons behind vaginal dryness, such as dehydration and stress. It is also a side effect of several medications. Even when her menstrual cycle is on that day, it could cause dryness. The easiest way to fix vaginal dryness is to go your local pharmacy and pick up some lube. I recommend the K-Y Touch, it gives the perfect little tingle. Another option is to take it slow in bed and spend more time on oral sex. Find out what she likes and what arouses her the most. Every girl has a secret button (I don’t mean the “G” spot either), push it.

If by “cum” you mean she can’t reach an orgasm, well you simply don’t know what you are doing. Just kidding! There are three main reasons as to why a woman can’t climax while with a partner; physical, hormonal and/or psychological issues. Physical ailments, such as a headache, are enough to keep a woman from having an orgasm. Hormones play a huge role in a woman’s ability to orgasm because they are all over the board due to a woman’s menstrual cycle. Finally, the most common reason for the inability to orgasm is psychological. Women are fucking cuckoo so the smallest thing can prevent her from feeling comfortable enough to orgasm with you. Women are run by their emotions and if something other than you is on her mind, well it ain’t gonna happen. I know you’d rather run your fingers across a chalkboard, but sit down and talk to her and find out what’s on her mind. Women like to talk. Maybe it is something small that you can fix for her or maybe it’s a whole other issue that makes you realize she’s fucking nuts and you need to get out of the relationship pronto.

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Author: Jillian

After working several years in not for profit as an advocate for the tatas, Jillian felt it was time to focus on the muff. Jillian is still unsure if the equator is a real line that goes around the Earth or just an imaginary one, but who the hell cares because she's got a great rack. Everything is funny as long as it is happening to someone else.

manny

+1

best advise i hear in a while

and very honest coming from a girl, really appreciate the honesty here.

men are honest about men and their issues, but most women "advisers" also want to blame men for all the problems women have too.

am more than willing to sit down and talk about any problem she may have.

but if shes indeed nuts i can only do so much before leaving. I've dealt with too many crazy women and is not pretty. Been burned many times. Thankfully i've learned