Ask a Hot Chick: The Sphincter

in Ask a Hot Chick by Jillian — September 30, 2009 | View Comments

My boyfriend likes me to finger his asshole while we are having sex. Is that normal? Do you think he might be gay?

~ Katie

Sphincter says what?

The enjoyment of anal stimulation is normal and not an indication of sexual orientation. Now if he proudly parades a rainbow flag and has trouble getting hard with you, then you might have something to worry about. Anal stimulation is a big hit with men because it creates a whole different pleasure sensation. In fact, sticking your finger in his butt can cause two different types of orgasms; anal orgasm or prostate orgasm.

The anus has sensitive nerve endings much like the genitals. Just the right amount of stimulation can help increase a man’s orgasm. Now, the prostate orgasm is much more tricky to assist a man in reaching because there is a rectal wall in the way. Luckily, the lobes of the prostate are highly sensitive to pressure. If you’d like to learn more on this, rent the movie Road Trip. Sean William Scott has a prostate exam causing him to have an orgasm.

Remember that the anus is highly sensitive and a lot of pain could occur with one wrong move. Keep your nails trimmed and be sure you clean under your fingernails afterward. You don’t want to rub your eye with feces under your nail and catch pink eye! Oh, and always use lubrication or spit because the anus doesn’t get wet with stimulation.

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