Ask A Hot Chick: Fantasizing About Other Women

in Ask a Hot Chick by Jillian — October 25, 2009 | View Comments

Is it bad that I desire to have sex with women other than my wife, even though I love her?
~ Mike

Desiring other women beside the one you’re with is not bad as long as you don’t act on those desires. According to Merriam-Webster, to desire is to long or hope for, to wish for. Everybody has desires, hopes and wishes, even if they know they will never come true. It’s simply a fantasy and fantasizing is good for the brain.

Women know men look at other women when they aren’t with them and they see it when they are standing right next to them. It’s normal for a man to appreciate the female physique. Women are sexy! Women often desire and fantasize about other men (and other women) too. Why do you think the shower scene in “Sex and the City” with Gilles Marini became so famous?

You can desire other women, but you should never act on those desires. There are ways you can fulfill those desires though. Let’s say you saw a nurse who was smokin hot. See if your wife would be willing to dress up as a naughty nurse one night. Yeah, the image of the smoking hot nurse may pop in your mind a few times while you are with your wife, but she’ll never know.

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