Cougar Tales Episode 1: Kismet Meets ‘Mr Tall’

in Cougar Tales Dating & Sex by Cougar Tales — February 16, 2010 | View Comments

Muff Slap’s brand new series, Cougar Tales, features real cougar dating stories written by the hot older women of Cougared.com. These sexy cougars bare all and share their tales of life on the prowl searching for young cubs.

real cougar story

Hi there, I’m Kismet, and have been asked to share a little bit about the cougar dating lifestyle.

First of all, I am not a professional writer. I actually haven’t written a paper since college. I am however, your everyday, average cougar.

I am 51, Latina and a professional, never been married/no kids by choice. In my Cougar Tales, I won’t use any real names (we have to protect the innocent), but a lot of nicknames, which we women really do. Fans of Sex and the City will remember “Mr Big”…yes we actually do that.

Okay, so now to the good stuff. I have been dating younger for a very long time, even before the term cougar came about.

Why younger? Because younger men are so much fun, better looking and more fit than men my age. Older guys are boring and full of baggage…I have nothing in common with a grandpa.

The fact that I’ve never been married means I can’t be accused of dating a cub ‘old enough to be my son’. I have dated as young as 18, but most of the cubs I have been dating lately, have been 20 something. Like the other night when I went out with a 24 yr old Irish lad I met online.

I’ll refer to him as “Mr Tall”; he’s 6′3, I’m only 5′2. When I met “Mr Tall” my first thought was “phew he looks better in person.”

It was an amazing first date and I am his first cougar, which made it even more special. It was one of the best first dates I’ve had in a very long time. We met at a famous restaurant and as the drinks flowed we talked about holidays, college, our dating experiences online and offline – the chat was easy and fun.

So, he walked me to my car and we kissed, yes a long passionate kiss with tongues. He easily passed the kissing test (a lost art). Older men seem to get lazy about their kissing and I just end up wiping my mouth off. Yuk.

Younger men really know how to kiss, and there’s no thought about the 26-year age difference when you’re getting intimate. I have this thing about a good kisser, if he’s not a good kisser, he’s not going to be good at any thing else.

Maybe it was the alcohol, or the attraction we had for one another, but it was one of those kisses where we both wanted more…so we took it to the next level. Yes, the back seat of my car. Now this is why younger men are more fun than old coots. So, there was some exploring with the hands. Since I’m not a first night girl, as hard as it was, I decided to call it a night.

And he got an extra point because he respected my boundaries. It’s hard being a good girl sometimes.

When I saw it was 3am, it occurred to me again what fun young cubs are. He had to work the next day, but was okay about the time. You have to appreciate a young guys energy and attentiveness. Damn, I love being a cougar.

Wanna meet your very own cougar? Be sure to check out Cougared.com, the free dating and social networking site that specializes in bringing together older women and younger men.

Share and Enjoy:

Author: CougarTales

Muff Slap's brand new series, Cougar Tales, features real cougar dating stories written by the hot older women of Cougared.com. These sexy cougars bare all and share their tales of life on the prowl searching for young cubs.